Exposure

There are some people that HATE to see you changing. Why? Because it exposes their demons. When light shines, darkness has to flee.

Your Results...The Important Change

Some people just don't want to change. It's their nature. It's who they are. It's who they want to be. But don't let that stop you from growing. The end results of your change is what's important. Not theirs.

Life Changes

The changes you make happen now effects the outcome in the future. What changes are you willing to make now so that you can be better? Remember change is growth and growth is good.

Power of Prayer

The power of prayer is the ultimate resource for our breakthrough. When it becomes a habit, breakthroughs become the common place. Prayer generally changes things. It's up to you to make it a habit.

Be Careful

Be careful who you put your mouth on (or whose family you put your mouth on). You never know what circumstances you may face next in your life. You can be up today and down tomorrow. If you're not going to help bring that person up or help that person achieve their goals, sit your miserable behind down. You are blocking someone else's chance to help them.  #WouldntTeachWhatIDontKnow #LifeExperiences

He's Just Not Ready....

Maturity is mental and age is physical. He can be in his late 30's and 40's and still not be ready to settle down with you. If he's not ready, ladies, he's just not ready. And there is nothing for you to do but let go and move on. #YouAreBetterThanThat

Shine on!

Make today the day that you will not live in your brokenness. It's during the darkest times when you begin to shine because Christ shines in you. #GetUp #FixYourCrown #ShineOn

Intimacy

Don't let church be your only medication. We also need to take it (The Word) home. True worshipers understand the importance of intimacy. God is saying 'I need you into me, you see (intimacy).' #HowIsYourPrayerLife #WhatKindaMusicAreYouListeningTo  #HaveYouBeenReadingYourWord  #StudyToShowYourselfApprove #Intimacy #CloseRelationshipWithGod

Choose Christ's Love

You have got to have the love of Christ first to understand that loving yourself is important before you can fall in love. If you don't have the love of Christ, you will fall for anything...and it won't last... #ChooseChristsLove #LoveYourselfAllOverAgain

Pray For Your Enemies!

The most difficult thing to do is to pray for (and love) our enemies (Matt. 5:44). In our selfish minds, we don't want to do this because our enemy (or enemies) have hurt us in any way but it's through the difficulty that God blesses us openly. Don't pray for their downfall. Pray for their upgrade.#PrayAndBeBlessed  #YouCanDoIt

DENIAL

One of the biggest reasons people choose to stay in broken, unequally yoke relationships/marriages is denial. Denial is going to cost you a lifetime of brokenness. Stop it, drop it, and leave it. YOU'RE VALUABLE!

I Got A Question....

Why run back into the arms of the one that hurt you? You're worth far more than how they treat you to be. Stop thinking you have to go back because you are afraid of what else is out there. Love yourself to know there is better than for you to settle. Life is so much greater. Know your worth and enjoy it.

STOP!

Ladies, stop allowing your kids to see you in and out of emotional and/or abusive relationships with broken men. You are going to reap it later. Repeated unequally yoke cycles creates generational curses. #RememberThat

Move In Silence

When you move in silence, outsiders won't know your business. What's done in secret, God will reward you openly. It's just like when we were in elementary school and the teacher would tell the class, "We going to put our finger up to our lips and walk down the hall quietly." Why? So you won't disturb the others. When the enemy is seeing you move, he attacks. #MoveInSilence #Ssshh

Greatness Is On The Inside Of You

The reason they don't talk to you at all or don't hang around you anymore is because the greatness that is in the inside of you. You wondering why family disowned you. You trying to figure out why folks talk about you. You hurt because he/she broke your heart. Remember, the enemy sees your destiny before you do. It was meant for all of this to happen. Why? Because God has greater. So tell yourself,  #ThereIsGreatnessInMe

Facing Life Obstacles

For every setback there is always a greater comeback. Obstacles are there to strengthen us, they're not there for us to quit. That's what the enemy's assignment is...to get us to stop dead in our tracks. On the track, the athletes doesn't stop in front of the hurdles, they use their strength to jump over them so they can finish the race. If they knock one down or if they fall, they keep going.

Habits

In order for God to bless us, we have to let go of our habits. Sometimes it's our habits that blocks the blessings of God and our pride won't allow us to see our habits and addictions that lies within us. Let down your guard, put away pride, be free from addictions and old habits so God can bless you and take you to another level. It's only necessary.

You Are Valuable

Never limit yourself because someone doesn't know their worth. Know your worth. Whether the other person is aware or not, but you are valuable. Beautifully and wonderfully made...inside and out. Know who you are and set yourself free from unequally yoke people. Trust God and He will send the right people into your life.

Single Moms, Let's talk

No matter what differences there are between the mother and the father, the child should NEVER be betrayed by either party. I know that feeling, and it's not an easy healing process. Teach your children to love and show them love. Just because the parents doesn't get along doesn't mean it includes the child. A lot of children suffer from low self-esteem, loneliness, emotional and mental issues because of the disfunction of the home. But even if mommy/daddy is not there in the home physically, doesn't mean that co-parenting can not take place. Single mothers, let past hurts and disappointments go. Everything happens for a reason. Focus on you and your child/children. Let God lead and He will heal you and give you peace. I'm speaking from experience. I have 3 different baby fathers. Don't hold your child back from them because he hurt you. Don't be foolish! If he wants to be apart of their lives, LET HIM. If he doesn't, STOP FORCING IT. Get on you knees, give it to God, encourage your children(positively! Don't you dare say nothing negative about their father to them!), and keep it moving. Don't get on Facebook, don't text him (or the girlfriend/wife, or anyone in that family). We as single mothers have got to learn how to stand our ground, smarter and wiser. Leave the children out of ya'll mess and leave each other alone if you can't get alone.

Release The Old

Old baggage hinders you from starting a new refreshing life with Christ. The problem with most singles is that they hold on to the smallest things that has caused hurt, pain, and disappointments from their past. The only way Christ can heal you from your brokenness is you have to, willingly, let old baggage go. Whether it's fear, anger, pride, selfishness, jealousy, etc, release it! It's the only way to enjoy a refreshing life with Christ.  

F.E.A.R.

Fear only stops you from reaching your destiny that was designed for you to have. The enemy designed false evidence but God has designed your destiny to a greater and better life. Once you let fear go, then blessings can flow. F.E.A.R: False Evidence Appearing Real

Let Your Light Shine!

There are going to be some people in this life, family, co workers, church goers, etc., who are not going to like you just because you are...you. When light shines, darkness flee. Keep being you, positively. The Bible says" In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."(Matt. 5:16 NIV) When your light shines, either people are going to run to it or run from it. Dont stop! Just continually let your light shine!

Cut!

Sometimes we got to cut ties with people that are not leading or motivating us, spiritually nor mentally. As we live in this life, positive people are necessary in order to grow where we are going. If they are not, then we are headed for destruction. Cut low life people loose and hook up with motivated people so you can live a positive lifestyle.

Dream Big!

Small dreams are for small minded people that may never accomplish anything. People with high expectations of the future always win. Why? Because they dream B I G.

Pay Attention!

Ladies, if you are dating and he acts differently around you when you guys are  around his family and love ones...LEAVE! This guy is playing with your emotions and it's unhealthy for you. You have to understand that God is not the author of confusion and you do not deserve to be in this "situationship" you both got going on. If he wants you in his life, he'll also want you in his family and love ones life. Pay attention, sweetie!

Stay Focus!

Be not easily distracted. Stay planted in the things of God. Remember, the enemy knows your weaknesses as well as your strengths. And because he knows your strengths well, that's why he distract you with your weaknesses. Don't let the enemy fool you. He knows exactly how to get your attention. Stay focus!

Keep Praying!

Prayer is the number one key to a successful life. Spending time with God in prayer, one on one, eliminates all the negativity that forces you to lose focus to what God has planned for your life. Pray without ceasing and watch God plant great blessings into your life one by one. Keep praying!

The EX Has A Meaning

Single Ladies: Stop going back to him. Going back to past hurts only block future blessings. An "Ex" from the past has a meaning for a reason. He is just an EXample of why your EXit EXisted for a learned EXperience. Leave him alone. He'll be alright. God has better in store for you.

Stop Going Back!

To many times when we are delivered and healed from our brokenness, we tend to fall back into the same trap we were delivered from. When we establish our breakthrough, we are to stay Holy by holding steadfast to the promises that God has made for us. We can't see if we keep walking back into darkness. Flourish. God has great plans for you.

You Are Valuable

Singles, listen up! When you don't know your worth, settling becomes a bad habit. Know who you are. Stop settling for less. You are very valuable.

Hand it over and Wait

Never once did God say worry about it, nor did He ever say fix it yourself. But it's when we hand our issues over to the Father then will He direct our path. Remember, when we hand it over though, we must develop patience. Why ask for help if you're not going to have patience? Wait. God is on the way.

Distractions

Distractions pull you away the plans God has set for you. Distractions lead to destruction. In order to keep from getting off focus during our walk with Christ, we must discipline ourselves and stay planted in the Word. You can't make it to the promise land if you allow what you see around you distract you. Look to the hills. That's where your help is.

Separation

Sometimes God has to separate us from people, yes even our love ones, for a while so He can have our undivided attention. Elevation requires separation. Even Jesus left His friends to fast and pray. When God is elevating you, be prepared for separation. It's only necessary.

Move Forward

A car was made to go forward. When you return back to the one's that broke you, you are putting your blessings in neutral. Stop reversing the curse of brokenness and move forward to what God has plan ahead. Put that car in drive and go. Your destiny lies ahead.

Worth

Single ladies, your worth is more important than being a fool all your life. Stop allowing these controlling men put a hold on your blessings. Let him go so God can show you how much you are really worth. If you keep giving a dog a reward, he going to keep doing the trick.

Meet With God

Maybe we are to busy with life to see God's plan. It happens. It's part of our nature. Work, kids, family, friends, chaos, struggles, and/or obstacles. Therefore we get so tired and burnt out with just every day life, we tend to throw in towel and give up easily because we lost focus. Only if we just stop and focus on God for just a brief moment, there will we realize that God's plan for us is to be peaceful and full of joy. All He wants us to do is just meet Him right where we are, even in our mess, our struggles, our work life, our chaos, and He will take us right where we need to be. All we have to do is follow Him. This is all apart of #LifeLessons.

Be You

Don't miss your breakthrough by trying to be someone you're not. A lot of times we focus so much on trying to be on top so fast by keeping up with other people that have already gotten their breakthrough. Slow down, be you. Your breakthrough is coming!

Purpose

Don't allow what others say stop you from reaching your destiny. God has a purpose for your life. What others say only distracts you from where God is taking you, your purpose.  Learn to listen to and rely on the Word of God. This is what's going to push you to where you need to be. #LifeLessons

#Grow

Life lessons are to help you to grow. The moment you decide to let go of all the baggage you have being carrying and focus on you is the moment you realize how important you are. You are only growing to fulfill your purpose. Don't let obstacles stop you from blooming. #Grow

Should I forgive?

Unforgiveness is a sin. It's the same thing as holding a grudge. But once you learn to forgive and FULLY let go of that thing that caused pain in your life, you can experience peace and joy that will come into your life. Remember, all pain is not permanent, it's just life lessons.

A Running Man

Single Ladies, listen, a man that is running from woman to woman is a man that runs from God. Why? Because if he isn't going to be still for God, he isn't going to be still for you. #LifeLessons