Ladies, if you are dating and he acts differently around you when you guys are around his family and love ones...LEAVE! This guy is playing with your emotions and it's unhealthy for you. You have to understand that God is not the author of confusion and you do not deserve to be in this "situationship" you both got going on. If he wants you in his life, he'll also want you in his family and love ones life. Pay attention, sweetie!