Exposure

There are some people that HATE to see you changing. Why? Because it exposes their demons. When light shines, darkness has to flee.

Your Results...The Important Change

Some people just don't want to change. It's their nature. It's who they are. It's who they want to be. But don't let that stop you from growing. The end results of your change is what's important. Not theirs.

Life Changes

The changes you make happen now effects the outcome in the future. What changes are you willing to make now so that you can be better? Remember change is growth and growth is good.

Power of Prayer

The power of prayer is the ultimate resource for our breakthrough. When it becomes a habit, breakthroughs become the common place. Prayer generally changes things. It's up to you to make it a habit.

Be Careful

Be careful who you put your mouth on (or whose family you put your mouth on). You never know what circumstances you may face next in your life. You can be up today and down tomorrow. If you're not going to help bring that person up or help that person achieve their goals, sit your miserable behind down. You are blocking someone else's chance to help them.  #WouldntTeachWhatIDontKnow #LifeExperiences

He's Just Not Ready....

Maturity is mental and age is physical. He can be in his late 30's and 40's and still not be ready to settle down with you. If he's not ready, ladies, he's just not ready. And there is nothing for you to do but let go and move on. #YouAreBetterThanThat

Shine on!

Make today the day that you will not live in your brokenness. It's during the darkest times when you begin to shine because Christ shines in you. #GetUp #FixYourCrown #ShineOn

Intimacy

Don't let church be your only medication. We also need to take it (The Word) home. True worshipers understand the importance of intimacy. God is saying 'I need you into me, you see (intimacy).' #HowIsYourPrayerLife #WhatKindaMusicAreYouListeningTo  #HaveYouBeenReadingYourWord  #StudyToShowYourselfApprove #Intimacy #CloseRelationshipWithGod

Choose Christ's Love

You have got to have the love of Christ first to understand that loving yourself is important before you can fall in love. If you don't have the love of Christ, you will fall for anything...and it won't last... #ChooseChristsLove #LoveYourselfAllOverAgain

Pray For Your Enemies!

The most difficult thing to do is to pray for (and love) our enemies (Matt. 5:44). In our selfish minds, we don't want to do this because our enemy (or enemies) have hurt us in any way but it's through the difficulty that God blesses us openly. Don't pray for their downfall. Pray for their upgrade.#PrayAndBeBlessed  #YouCanDoIt

DENIAL

One of the biggest reasons people choose to stay in broken, unequally yoke relationships/marriages is denial. Denial is going to cost you a lifetime of brokenness. Stop it, drop it, and leave it. YOU'RE VALUABLE!

I Got A Question....

Why run back into the arms of the one that hurt you? You're worth far more than how they treat you to be. Stop thinking you have to go back because you are afraid of what else is out there. Love yourself to know there is better than for you to settle. Life is so much greater. Know your worth and enjoy it.

STOP!

Ladies, stop allowing your kids to see you in and out of emotional and/or abusive relationships with broken men. You are going to reap it later. Repeated unequally yoke cycles creates generational curses. #RememberThat

Move In Silence

When you move in silence, outsiders won't know your business. What's done in secret, God will reward you openly. It's just like when we were in elementary school and the teacher would tell the class, "We going to put our finger up to our lips and walk down the hall quietly." Why? So you won't disturb the others. When the enemy is seeing you move, he attacks. #MoveInSilence #Ssshh

Greatness Is On The Inside Of You

The reason they don't talk to you at all or don't hang around you anymore is because the greatness that is in the inside of you. You wondering why family disowned you. You trying to figure out why folks talk about you. You hurt because he/she broke your heart. Remember, the enemy sees your destiny before you do. It was meant for all of this to happen. Why? Because God has greater. So tell yourself,  #ThereIsGreatnessInMe

Facing Life Obstacles

For every setback there is always a greater comeback. Obstacles are there to strengthen us, they're not there for us to quit. That's what the enemy's assignment is...to get us to stop dead in our tracks. On the track, the athletes doesn't stop in front of the hurdles, they use their strength to jump over them so they can finish the race. If they knock one down or if they fall, they keep going.

Habits

In order for God to bless us, we have to let go of our habits. Sometimes it's our habits that blocks the blessings of God and our pride won't allow us to see our habits and addictions that lies within us. Let down your guard, put away pride, be free from addictions and old habits so God can bless you and take you to another level. It's only necessary.

You Are Valuable

Never limit yourself because someone doesn't know their worth. Know your worth. Whether the other person is aware or not, but you are valuable. Beautifully and wonderfully made...inside and out. Know who you are and set yourself free from unequally yoke people. Trust God and He will send the right people into your life.

Single Moms, Let's talk

No matter what differences there are between the mother and the father, the child should NEVER be betrayed by either party. I know that feeling, and it's not an easy healing process. Teach your children to love and show them love. Just because the parents doesn't get along doesn't mean it includes the child. A lot of children suffer from low self-esteem, loneliness, emotional and mental issues because of the disfunction of the home. But even if mommy/daddy is not there in the home physically, doesn't mean that co-parenting can not take place. Single mothers, let past hurts and disappointments go. Everything happens for a reason. Focus on you and your child/children. Let God lead and He will heal you and give you peace. I'm speaking from experience. I have 3 different baby fathers. Don't hold your child back from them because he hurt you. Don't be foolish! If he wants to be apart of their lives, LET HIM. If he doesn't, STOP FORCING IT. Get on you knees, give it to God, encourage your children(positively! Don't you dare say nothing negative about their father to them!), and keep it moving. Don't get on Facebook, don't text him (or the girlfriend/wife, or anyone in that family). We as single mothers have got to learn how to stand our ground, smarter and wiser. Leave the children out of ya'll mess and leave each other alone if you can't get alone.

Release The Old

Old baggage hinders you from starting a new refreshing life with Christ. The problem with most singles is that they hold on to the smallest things that has caused hurt, pain, and disappointments from their past. The only way Christ can heal you from your brokenness is you have to, willingly, let old baggage go. Whether it's fear, anger, pride, selfishness, jealousy, etc, release it! It's the only way to enjoy a refreshing life with Christ.